Get Your Children in Debt to Keep Them Out of It!
| November 27th, 2007If you're new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. Thanks for visiting!
This is an interesting title isn’t it? Have you ever heard of putting your children in debt to make sure later in life they don’t fall into it? I believe that most people get into debt trouble at one point or another in their lives only to learn to live within their means. Why not teach your children that at an early age? Chances are you’ll be a lot more reasonable than Visa, Mastercard, Amex, Dinners Club etc…
You can get into debt as a child, in your teens, in university, afterwards etc… Bottom line is until you’ve bought something and gotten sick of it but still had to continue paying for it you don’t know what being in debt is like. It’s also a ball and chain that enslaves you and keeps you working. How can you even consider quitting your job and following your dreams if you have debts to pay? Until you feel the pressure of debt first hand you don’t realize how bad it feels and how much more you end up paying in the end thanks to interest.
When I was a child I used to sleep with a consumer magazine; I wanted everything! I had a short attention span and went from one item to the next. If my parents had been billionaires I would of wanted them to buy entire stores. Didn’t matter what it was I wanted it and I wanted it now.
When I was about 10 years old I bothered my parents endlessly for something that I don’t even remember. I can’t remember what it was but back then it meant the world to me. It was an overpriced gimmick made of cheap plastic; that I do remember. My father told me that he would lend me the money and I’d have to pay him back in increments. I was ecstatic; couldn’t have been any happier! Hours went by and I played and played with this gimmick; then days went by and after a week or so I had gotten completely fed up with it. It went into a pile with the rest of my belongings and just collected dust.
The difference between this discarded toy and the others was that I hadn’t even begun paying for it yet and the honeymoon was already over! I remember it took me months to pay this item back. I’d do my paper route and give over a portion each week to my father to pay for this item that I had no use for and had basically forgotten about completely. If I didn’t still have to pay for it I probably would have totally forgotten about it.

By the time I ended up paying my father back in full I had learnt an incredibly valuable lesson about debt; it’s to be avoided at all costs. Some things you have to go in debt for though such as a home or schooling if you don’t have any help from your family. Unless you strike it big early in life chances are you will have to have a mortgage. Apart from a mortgage, I’m proud to say that 17 years later I’m still debt free. I have never had a credit card balance in my entire life. Each month I religiously pay off my credit card. They charge you 18%! That’s highway robbery.
The point of this story is that everyone has to learn about debt for themselves. The sooner you learn about it the better off you are in life. Instead of learning your lesson with a $10,000 furniture and kitchen set from Leon’s for the first apartment you rent why not learn about it at age 10 for some toy that cost you $50? At the time I thought my parents were being unfair but in hindsight I can’t thank them enough.
Almost everyone I know has credit card debt for consumer products ranging from clothes, computers, golf clubs, vacations, ski passes you name it. Unfortunately they are being billed at 18% interest or higher. For lots of them unless they completely detach themselves from the physical world for a year or so I can’t imagine them ever getting out of debt. How much harder is it to save for a down payment on a home when you have 5-$20,000+ in credit card debt being charged at 18%!?
If you have children my advice to you is to get them in debt for something small and stick to your guns and make sure they learn a lesson that things do have to be paid back. If you do that once and they still want more charge interest next time; they will quickly learn their lesson and it will help them financially for the rest of their lives. I’m not saying to never give your children anything; what I’m saying is everyone has a reasonable limit. Once they’ve passed that limit make them the proposition and go from there. You’ll know when the time is right and in my mind this is one of the most important financial lessons they will ever learn. Live within your means!

